Monday, July 24, 2006

Working at the nursing home

One winter in the 1980's I found my self in need of a job. I applied at a nursing home in Branson MO. And was hired for the evening shift as cook. I ask for this job thinking it would not upset me as much as caring for the patients on the floor.
I was wrong they locked all the food in a freezer and laid out what I was to use for each meal. They never gave me enough food to feed 100 people which was the number of patients I had to cook for.
For instant they would have wieners on the menu and they would leave me 94 hot dogs. Now my problem was trying to feed everyone wieners. When I complained they told me to use the left overs from the noon meal. There never was left overs !
Also the patients learned very quickly that the cook was always willing to help them when they needed some chore down. They would knock on the kitchen door for me to zip up clothing which they were unable to manage. They would come tell me when someone had a bowel movement on the floor. I would have to find an aid and tell them to go clean up the mess.
One day this lady named velum refused to go on her out side work assignment, they sent some of the patients on a bus to work in a place where they made small items to sell. They were paid piece work prices for this work and could make some change at this plus they were able to get out of the home for a few hours.
velum always enjoyed this, she was a stroke victim who had difficulty speaking and swallowing and eating. Her food was placed in a blender and ground into soup which she took with her to work .
Like I said velma like to go but one morning she refused to go and I got to work at 12 0'clock the head nurse was waiting for me. Seem Velma had refused to tell anyone what was wrong and refused to eat. She said she wanted to see me.
Ok I went and talked to velma which was like 20 question and took a lot of patients. I finally found what was wrong. They blended velma's lunch and sent it in a vacuum bottle with her on the job. They had been starving velma and would give her only about half of the food she needed to get by on.
I told the head nurse the problem and she assured Velma it would not happen again.
in the spring when I knew I could find work I gave notice that I would be leaving in two weeks. That is the only job I ever gave notice on. I always just quit on the other jobs that I had worked but this time I gave notice because of the patients.
I had a patient who was the mother of the prosecuting attorney for Tanya co. She was senile and had little mind. One of The aid had called my attention to her ring which they said was worth 10 thousands dollars. An aid had to wash this patient hands before she ate because she often had bowel movement on her hands. The last week I was to work the management assigned me the chore of washing her hands after she arrived at the table. Which I did.
I absolutely hated working at that place and come my last day I just could not go to work. So I fell short of my two weeks but that was better than I had ever managed to do before when I quit a job.
The next week I read in the paper that someone had stolen that expensive ring on the last day I was to have worked!
the prosecuting attorney was investigation everybody who had worked that day at the home. I think they were setting me up for the fall but God looked after me. I just could not go that last day. I have never been back to that place either.

4 comments:

Unknown said...

Oh my gosh what a dreadful experience. At least you were 'lucky' enough to be able to walk away. Those poor residents - there must be thousands of such poor souls in homes all over the world.

I hope that I don't end up in one!

Linda@VS said...

Patsy, it takes a special kind of person to work at a place like that. Sounds like you were good for the people there, but the whole situation wasn't very good for you. I don't blame you for leaving.

clairesgarden said...

I have worked in a nursing home, I once got a row from the matron . my crime?
crying at the funeral of a patient.
so I suppose we were meant not to care?
well I did care, its a nice enough home, people are well cared for ,
I left not long after that though.

Tina Leigh said...

Oh Patsy that is such a sad story but I have no doubt that God put you there for a reason. Not all nursing homes are that bad but there are many that sound just like that one. My Mama spent her whole career as a nurse working in nursing homes and it was going with her to work when I was a child that put such a passion for the elderly in my heart. My Mama & I have talked many times about "blowing the whistle" on nursing homes. We have even talked about writing a letter to some magazine or something. There are so many issues about nursing homes that need to be exposed but the bottom line is OUR GOVERMENT allows it & they are perfectly aware of whats going on because they do their so called inspections. So many need to be closed down but they want do it. Oh I could stay on my soap box about this all day. Anyway, I know it was a bad experience for you but I am glad you had it. Being in any nursing home requires THE REST of the FAMILY visiting OFTEN and staying on top of things! It does not always have to be a bad experience. We should care for our on and we can still do it even at the expense of putting our loved one in a nursing home. I love working in a nursing home, Ilove those people. They still have so much to offer! Patsy you have such an interesting life! Keep blogging!!